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Amanda Richey's avatar

I love, love, love this!

I teach goal setting workshops and this is the point I try to drive home as well: the point isn't the end goal, the point is who you become, the act of doing the thing is point! Running a marathon isn't the point it is being a runner, someone who makes running a habit. Finishing the book isn't the point it is being a writer, someone who makes writing a habit. That is the HUGE perspective shift that needs to take place so that you can actually accomplish the end goal (and maybe enjoy the process?). It's about the brain too, your brain will be too overwhelmed striving for the end goal (and the perfectionism) but if you understand the goal is to write, every day, and don't quit, your brain can get behind that!

Van Gogh is an inspiration (and such a perfectionist am I right?)

Love your newsletters! Always a pleasure!

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Janet Best Dart's avatar

Very enlightening and inspirational. I never studied art, so I love how you brought in Van Gogh and took it full circle to writing. I write, therefore I am [a writer].

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